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Here are some of the comments shared by my readers/ Les commentaires français suivent

You must be so pleased at how well your book is being received. I enjoyed it very much. My mother and I have had four holidays in Barbados and are quite familiar with the spots you mention in the book. It is a nice change to read a book where you can visualize the scenery and spots they are talking about. Even after trying other Islands, we always returned to Barbados. And yes, the Barbadians are the friendliest you can find.  (Deborah Stinson of Navan, Ont.)

Last night, (May 4th, 05),  I met Alberte Villeneuve-Sinclair at the Elmvale Branch of the Ottawa Public Library. Just hearing about her book touched me deeply due to my own experiences... No wonder I took to writing as a form of expression. We had a lot to talk about after she signed a copy of the English version for me. I think she has written the book that I - and probably many others - have wanted to write.  (Theresa Jobateh, Ottawa, Ont.)

"The Neglected Garden" is a must read. Follow Anne's struggle to understand her abusive relationship, work through the rage and read how she begins to recognize her personal value and worth. The enchanting Barbados settings where she meets interesting characters, reads like a dream. And the best part is how Anne, with new power and resolve ends her current relationship with "dead end" Paul. She is fully aware and knows that like her neglected garden, she also has value and is worthy. Bravo!  (Arline Boyd, Victoria, B.C.)

After receiving your book "The Neglected Garden" as a gift, I had a hard time putting it down. I had to read it every night before bed during my visit in Ottawa and I finally finished it on the plane ride home to B.C.  It was very well written and kept you wanting more. It touched me deeply... Please let me know if you publish other treasures. (Tawnya Fuhriman, Fort St. John, B.C.)

Just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed your book. Even though the reader has an idea of what's going to happen, there is a a great sense of drama and urgency that really makes you keep reading. And the characters are great! (Joan Shouldice, Ottawa, Ont.)

Thank you for sharing your book with me. I truly enjoyed the characters and their numerous experiences. I found it difficult to go too far into the book because it so resonated with some experiences I have had in my own life. Having worked in the mental-health community for a decade, I could see the countless parallels with many of the people I helped, as well as some family experiences. Your book is remarkably real and heartbreakingly so. (Cheryl Driskell, Ottawa, Ont.)

I bought your book last night and immediately read it in its entirety. I didn't like the book... I LOVED IT!! Your beautiful writing and vivid description of Barbados brought back memories of visiting there when I was on a cruise. Your artistry of using dialogue astonished me. It flows so naturally and effortlessly. I could visualize Anne, Paul, Andrew, Colleen, Rita and the others. (Stephen Nelson, Ottawa, Ont.)

I was surprised by The Neglected Garden because this is not the kind of book I usually enjoy. But Alberte's narrative swept me away immediately. Although I often become impatient with long descriptions, the pictures Alberte paints of this enchanted setting reveal the keen eye of a talented artist. The Neglected Garden speaks to readers on many levels, but especially to women who might be reluctant to travel or uncertain in new relationships. We watch with great satisfaction as Anne becomes more assertive, more joyful, and begins to heal from terrible abuse. (Barbara Florio Graham, Gatineau, Qué.)

Comments regarding my articles in True North Perspective

I enjoyed your article "Grandparenting on Demand" in True North Perspective (April 3rd). I truly believe what you are saying. I miss having my grandchildren around to love and play with as you are doing. My love for them is shown in my writing. You are a very good person. (Roberta Dupont, Ottawa Ont.) *** Visit Roberta's website to find out about her children's books: www.freewebs.com/frgadupont

"Grandparenting on demand" What a nice story! Grandchildren give us our second wind. (Debby Stinson, Navan, Ont.)

You should be bursting with pride. Your articles are well written and well received by everyone. Your talent is shining!! (Arline Boyd, Victoria, B.C.) 

What you say about grandparenting is so true! (Denis Dagenais, Gatineau, Qué.)

I just read your article on "Uninvited Critters...". I found it very interesting and amusing. I never realized what a challenge these pests pose for gardeners. Looking forward to your next article! (Nicole Rousssin, Orléans, Ont.) 

I loved your article "Nova Scotia beckons" and the photos are beautiful. (Stephen Nelson, Ottawa, Ont.) 

"Farewell and godspeed" is another thoughtful and brilliant article that will touch many people, not just teachers. (Arline Boyd, Victoria B.C.)

This week's article, "Are we scheduling ourselves silly?" is first-class writing. When you write in the first person singular, the words jump off the page. We, the readers, are instantly there with you in your life, going from childcare, to weeding carrots, to errands, to taking your mum to the dentist. We chuckle often too as we see ourselves in your words. Quoting Wayne Dyer will inspire readers to look at his book. (Arline Boyd, Victoria, B.C.)

"Have your vacation plans ever bombed?" was excellent! What wonderful memories we have of that trip! Your writing is so "from the heart". We also enjoyed the other articles, especially the one about the garden pests. You are a "true northern", my dear! (Mary-Lou and Ron, Arnprior, Ont.)

Dear Alberte, regarding your article "Remembering Grandpa", it is always nice to have and hold those memories that are just so dear to us; sometimes if only we could hold on just a little longer... Yes, I do like reading you in TNP. (Dianne Frigon, Carlsbad Springs, Ont.)

I was pleased to read your article on "The Secret" in the Sept. 19th TNP. I feel the same way about this self-help movement, which includes a wide range of popular (and very rich) motivational speakers who have been scamming the public for many years. Some of the supporters of "The Secret" (like Oprah) have good intentions, but most are just exploiting human greed and laziness. People who buy this book also line up to spend hard-earned money (money they really need to buy healthy food) on lottery tickets. I think TV has perpetuated this, with its talk shows where members of the audience often receive items for showing up, and reality shows where people humiliate themselves for a chance to win a million dollars. (Barbara Florio Graham, Gatineau, Québec) ** Please check her website in the website section

I really enjoyed your article on The Secret (Sept.18th)! Certainly, I can agree that the way the book and movie presented the law of attraction did not take into consideration many factors - including the perseverance of which you write. "Belief" that you can persevere with positive outcomes has always assisted me in achieving my goals. (Cheryll Driskell, Ottawa, Ont.) ** Please check her website in the website section

In "Don't be fooled by The Secret", I liked your thoughts on "inspiration" - learning to use your intuition in order to make positive changes. And of course, I loved the photo! Alberte, you express yourself so well. What a gift! (Mary-Lou Riley, Arnprior, Ont.)

I learned at a young age to use my intuitive skills. It has opened many doors and still today, I go through life on a hunch. (Dianne Frigon, Carlsbad Springs, Ont.) 

I really loved your article of Oct. 9th, "Time to count your blessings". It generated many memories of growing up with the love of family and extended family. Those of us who have had the experience of such love and devotion are more able to be giving, caring individuals. This shows in your writings and in the way you live your life. (Roberta Dupont, Ottawa, Ont.)

Sure enjoyed your article "How to beat the November blues". Keep spreading the positive attitude. No wonder you look too young to be 60! Happy belated birthday! (Nicole Roussin, Orléans, Ont.)

I enjoyed your article "Sue McGarvie celebrates Libido Day". You raised many interesting issues, starting with the difference in response between men and women. Men just have to look at a naked form or even photos and many (not all) get aroused. It's a biological survival mechanism. Women evolved differently bacause they had more to risk from sex, namely pregnancy. Of course love and trust are important and so is foreplay that starts outside the bedroom with kindness, compliments and flirtations. But in general, these things are more important for women because men still can have great sex with someone they don't even like and still return to their wife or girlfriend because they need love to. Anyway, great read!! (Sigrid Macdonald, Ottawa, Ont.)

"Has our society lost touch?" Excellent topic and presentation! Touching is so very important! I would not be here without it. When I was quite sick in my 20's, I believe it saved my life to receive that loving energy that people provide. As an energy therapist, I can see the difference in people's bodies and energy fields when they are touched. Great idea and great work! (Cheryl Driskell, Ottawa, Ont.)

It was a pleasure to read your super interesting and informative article, "Life is all about creating beautiful memories". I am happy to know you spent precious moments with your sweetheart. (Cécile Landriault, Orléans, Ont.)

Welcome back! I like your positive attitude, always looking for the good. It's all in how we look at things and it makes it easier with the people we surround ourselves with. I like to think I am the same way. (Debbie Stinson, Ottawa, Ont.)

"Life is all about creating beautiful memories" How true! When holidays have come and gone, memories live on for always. Hope you enjoyed your time in Florida as much as I did. Can't wait to read you again! (Dianne Frigon, Carlsbad Springs, Ont.)

"Alberte, you are becoming very proficient at taking some simple, everyday experience that we have all had and turning it into a gem of wisdom.  You make us realize that sometimes we look but don't really see the beauty that surrounds us because we are too busy seeking superficial pleasures, satisfying the ego.  It's amazing how many things in our own surroundings that we are ignorant of. On your article on Haiti it's amazing how many people ignore the pleas for our humanitarian response to this horrific disaster because they are not directly affected by it." (Roberta Dupont, Ottawa, Ont.)

Thank you for your article "You can't always trust Cupid..."! It is good for long-time married couples such as Michel and I to read your comments and verify that the parameters of our relationship still stand despite the reversals and obstacles life can reserve for us. It is so true that we must be adaptable and willing to embrace change. I know couples who were not capable of evolving (stuck in the sixties) and unfortunately did not survive. I firmly believe a network of good friends is an excellent way to keep your couple in good health. When you can discuss with people who are going through the same things, they become your "sounding board" and allow you to re-evaluate your couple. (Lise Châtelain, Gatineau, Qué.)

"Who is protecting your blind side?" Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. You couldn't have captured the essence of athleticism better. In Joannie's case, I believe she had several million "moms" out there, carrying the torch for her mom and feeling her spirit guiding her daughter as always. With our Olympics over, there is no doubt there are mixed feelings amongst the athletes, let alone their Nations, whether it be successes, failures, losses or progress. But there is no doubt that TIME and BELIEF is a factor, without which, where would anyone be? Look at you! Using your own talent to share the images you project through words... and that is a gift as well, but has taken "time and belief". Thank you once again! (Dawn McCourt, Beaver Harbour, Nova Scotia)

Thank you for this awe inspiring article. Just like good wine, you are getting better with time. (notice I did not say with age) I must say your writings reflect a mature philosophy that comes with life's experiences. I too believe there are no coincidences. Keep up the good work. I truly enjoy your articles. (Nicole Roussin, Orléans, Ont.)

"How far have we come?" This is a great article, and so true! Thanks for sharing that insight. (Elizabeth Raymond, Ottawa, Ont.)

Dear Alberte, once again, you have written a great article on Love turning to violence. By pure coincidence, I was reading a popular magazine. In it, there is an article on Reese Witherspoon, a young actress and Avon Global Ambassador, who was in Washington on March 10 to raise awareness about violence against women. She says that women have to discuss this issue openly because there is still a lot of shame associated with it. Talking about it takes some of the stigma off it. If we talk about this topic with our children (boys & girls), they can be inspired to eradicate violent behaviour. One thing still puzzles me about love turning to violence: Was it really love in the first place since love is about giving? Isn't it? (Nicole Roussin, Orléans, Ont.)

"Spring has sprung early this year" is certainly heart-warming! It touched my heart as it reminded me of the times when my son was that age and how fast these moments pass us by. I hope I will be blessed with grandchildren one day, because I realize that for me, connecting with young children were the best days of my life. (Mirella Zanetti, Ottawa, Ont.)

 "Unforgettable Memories" Wonders never cease! Your encounter was certainly an example of the law of attraction at work in the quantum field matrix. (Mirella Zanetti, Ottawa, Ont.)

Even in 2010, manic-depressive disease is diagnosed more often as a burnout condition but in fact is a lack of serotonin in our brain. Depression is recognized in general by medical practitioners but not well-handled as a disease where they should refer their patients to experts, such as psychiatrists. Instead, they quickly hand out various prescriptions or blame it on menopause or job related stress, etc.

You don't wear anxiety and anguish on your sleeve! There's no outward sign, visible bleeding or bone fractures ... Depression is held inside the mind and the wear and tear of many months or years often leads to suicide. I have battled this disease for many years. I am on lifetime medication, a serotonin drug. Should I fail to take it for a period of time, it brings me down again to depression and anxiety. Alberte Villeneuve-Sinclair's article, "Unforgettable Moments", reminded me of how sorry I felt for Mrs. Trudeau and the compassion I had for her as she was mocked and ridiculed because of her manic-depressive episodes by the TV and press media who had no consideration for her torment and anguish.

Count your blessings if you never have to live this day by day, inner anguish caused by a chemical brain imbalance, which today is treated more easily with readily available medications and paid for by our Canadian Health Insurance.

"Blame it on the Easter Bunny" Bravo for the Easter Bunny caper! Watch out Stephen Harper! I have always been of the opinion there should be more women in politics but of course, most of them are busy overseeing the survival of the species in our universe. They are already managing "too many bunnies" at a time, trying to keep everyone happy, healthy and productive. Bravo to women like Hilary Clinton who have learned to manage so well in the "boys' network" of government politics and can tell it as it is regarding world policies and women's issues. Please continue writing! It's always interesting to read your articles. (Lise Châtelain, Gatineau, Québec)

Dear Alberte, your article "Would you be angel?" is an open invitation to take ourselves more lightly and at the same time to surpass worries and the tribulations of life. I like the quote from Saint Theresa as it corresponds to one of my favourite Buddhist principles about awareness of the ephemeral quality of earthly things. "All things pass." Lots of material here such as Wayne Dyer's teachings, how to deal with pollution in our life produced by others and sometimes ourselves, about "being in the dumps" and its negative impact on the soul. One thing is sure, I believe you when you say you practice "Being as light as possible so that I can take flight despite the extra load" and opening your heart to love. Thank you for the opportunity to reflect on these principles of life! (Carole Bézaire, Gatineau, Québec)

"Would you be an angel?" What a beautiful philosophy of life! What a wonderful way to start your Sunday, your week, the rest of your life! I truly enjoyed the article.
(Yves Sincennes, Sudbury, Ontario)

 Dear Alberte, "A tribute to dads" had me holding back tears. The photo reminded me how safe I felt when I was with Dad, holding on to his little finger. I loved it when he rocked us in  the big wicker rocking chair. I loved watching him shave at the kitchen sink. I admired his silent ways, his courage, his stamina and his perseverance. He was skillful at many things and as you said, he taught us all to love and appreciate nature. Thanks! (Diane Albert, your sister, Vars, Ontario)

Your Fathers' Day articles, brought back vivid memories of my Dad. He was a man of a few words but his actions spoke louder than his words. He was generous with his time and he was a fine listener. His greatest pleasure was to prepare meals for all of us on Sunday mornings. When he passed away I treasured his love for music, his ability to work hard every day of his life and his love for his family. Today, I watch my husband, a father and a grandfather, and I realize how important he is to our family. As a father, our daughters turn to him when making important decisions. He becomes their sounding board! As a father-in-law, he has become a friend to our daughters' husbands. To our six grandchildren, he is their only «Papi or Popi»! He lives for their pleasure! As I ponder all of this, it is clear to me that men play such an important role in family relationships, be it their wisdom, knowledge, masculinity, their particular sense of humour... all of these attributes are needed to make up a balanced and well-meshed network in any family. I think that sometimes men don't take their role as seriously as they should or maybe we , as women, should remind them more often how valuable their role is. Thank you, Alberte, for writing these articles and affording me time to reflect on this. (Lise Chatelain, Gatineau, Québec)

I love your articles! I agree that love is an act of faith. The hell you went through during your first marriage  has made you stronger and wiser... and you still believe in love. I believe in destiny and in love. A wonderful man is waiting for you somewhere... (Normande Leduc, Ste-Foy, Qué.)

I really appreciated your last articles for Fathers' Day, about relationships and about seniors. Each reading is like a sweet, soothing balm. You should consider becoming a therapist. Thank you for the kind and reassuring words! (Nicole Roussin, Orléans, Ont.)

I wish all seniors decided to move to senior residences. It is so sad to meet people who are lonely, living in their large house because once or twice a year they get to entertain their family who often stay for an hour, an hour and a half. At the residence, they can make new friends almost daily and enjoy the activities. Their children can visit and in the meantime, life is good and so is the company. (Bob Beauchemin, Ottawa)

Echoing Alberte’s Article

 Dear Alberte, I’m so grateful to you for talking with such admiration and praise about our book, Orléans Villa Memoirs, and especially about the residents who contributed their story for that book. I can’t tell you enough how enriching it has been for me to meet them and especially how wonderful these people are. It’s as simple as this: I fell in love with them!

You are right, Alberte! We have to celebrate, not only Seniors Month, but also seniors’ life! We owe our seniors a lot, for what they achieved, for what they contributed, for what they are: ordinary men and women, yet fantastic men and women who have a lot to offer. I sense, Alberte that you have read, not only the lines written in that book, but also all that is written between the lines. There lie all the wisdom and the goodness, the authentic self of my dear “storytellers”. They always left me with a taste of happiness, of hope and of enthusiasm.

You know, Alberte, though I am very proud of OUR book, I cannot take all the credit for it. All of the 26 residents who shared their life story deserve a medal. However, behind this wonderful project, is a young metteuse en scène without whom Orléans Villa Memoirs would never have been. As director of marketing at Orléans Villa, Marisabelle Terriault-Elibani was often amazed when people shared their stories with her. She wanted those stories to live forever, to be known and told. That’s how she conceived the idea of a book. Yes, it is interesting to read about “the birth of our book” and then… let’s congratulate Marisabelle! What a brilliant idea! What a fantastic project to pass on the residents’ memoirs! And what a pleasant, efficient team-worker Marisabelle has been! I really enjoyed having her as a partner.

I congratulate you, Alberte, for writing articles which reflect life realities, for writing about things that do make a difference, like family ties, social, moral and spiritual values. Thanks for reminding us that happiness can be found in simple daily events when we live them with love and serenity. We do need those rays of sunshine, rays of wisdom and of encouragement.

The title of your article reminds me of Florence’s story. It was so generous of her to offer us the precious legacy left by her husband Alex: “Live day by day; live to the fullest…” Worth reading, worth keeping in our heart forever!

We can’t mention every storyteller, but you certainly agree that each one leaves us with something to cherish. We rightfully feel grateful towards them. As Marisabelle so appropriately says, “Please remember to cherish each story, as each person who told it is someone to be cherished as well.”

So that this echo of wonderful thoughts, values and sharing keeps echoing all over the world, I would like to leave you with a gift: a wonderful saying from Amanda Bradley. In fact, I concluded our last story, Barbara’s – so inspiring! – with Amanda’s words: It takes only one life to make a difference… and blessed be the person who will live it.

Isn’t it a privilege to be that person? Isn’t a privilege to help someone become that person?  Congratulations Alberte, and, from the bottom of my heart, thank you!

P.S. Our book is available at Orléans Villa in Orléans and also at Books on Beechwood, on Beechwood  Avenue, in Ottawa. From next week on, it will also be at Michabou bookstore, Glenwood Plaza, in Aylmer, QC.

 Commentaires au sujet de mes romans 

Dans un vécu quotidien, comme bon nombre de femmes en connaissent, Le jardin négligé dénonce la violence faite aux femmes. Le thème, malheureusement, est toujours aussi omniprésent dans notre société actuelle qu'il y a dix ans, seize ans! Cependant ce roman nous laisse un goût d'espoir... espoir dans l'amitié, espoir dans la consoeurerie, espoir dans la beauté de la nature, espoir dans les yeux d'un enfant. Anne, l'héroïne, puise sa force dans sa propre spiritualité, dans la puissance de la nature, dans le scintillement des étoiles! Malgré l'enfer qu'elle a subi, Anne peut tourner la page et refaire sa vie. Dans le décor enchanteur de la Barbade, elle nous démontre que le désespoir et la peur peuvent un jour s'effacer devant l'espoir, la sérénité, l'appréciation des petits bonheurs de la vie. Bravo Alberte pour ce goût d'espoir que ton roman nous offre! À quand le prochain? (Lise Chatelain, Gatineau, Québec)

Émission du 27 septembre, "Pour tout l'amour du monde" animée par Ginette Gratton au Rogers 23

Bravo pour l'entrevue avec Ginette Gratton! Wow!!! Je me sentais comme si j'étais assise dans le coin d'un salon de profs avec toi et on jasait mais sans avoir à se préoccuper de la cloche... c'était merveilleux comme dans le bon vieux temps... tellement c'était intime et chaleureux.. Chapeau ma belle! (Cécile Landriault, Orléans)

J'ai joui de l'émission! Tu dégages beaucoup de fraîcheur et de simplicité en entrevue. Quel atout car tu peux rejoindre ainsi des femmes de toutes les classes. Il faut être courageuse pour partager en ondes comme tu le fais. Merci à toi de permettre à nombre de femmes de faire la démarche au-delà de l'abus. Faut pas lâcher!! (Nicole Roussin, Ottawa)

Félicitations, Alberte, pour ce beau témoignage. Tu redonnes à certaines femmes l'espoir de beaux lendemains et le courage de se prendre en main. En refleurissant toi-même, tu fais refleurir des fleurs qui se croyaient fanées. Bravo! (Colette St.   Denis, Ottawa)

Lancement du roman "Une prière pour Hélène", le 10 mars 2007

Merci beaucoup pour l'invitation au lancement de ton livre. Ça été une soirée très intéressante, remplie de chaleur et d'amitié. J'avais l'impression d'être dans une réunion de famille. Et merci beaucoup pour le beau cadeau qu'est "Une prière pour Hélène". C'est un livre qui coule bien, l'histoire est captivante et une fois qu'on a commencé à le lire, on ne veut plus s'arrêter. Félicitations pour ce chef-d'oeuvre! (Lucie, Limoges, Ont.)

"Une prière pour Hélène" se lit comme un charme et nous fait voir la réalité de notre monde d'une façon touchante et véritable. Tu as fait un vraiment beau travail. Félicitations encore! (Mirella, Aylmer, Qué.)

J'ai fini de lire ton roman. Quel bijou!! Je ne pouvais m'arrêter. Mon "chum" me disait: "Ça doit être bon en maudit cette histoire!". Je lui ai suggéré de la lire. Par moments, je me revoyais jeune mariée et ça m'a donné des frissons. Continue ton beau travail! P.S. Je ne lis pas les cartes et je n'analyse pas les rêves mais je te prédis un grand succès! (Nicole, Orléans, Ont.)

En terminant la lecture de ton roman, Une prière pour Hélène, je rêve du jour où cessera enfin la violence faite aux femmes, où des petits enfants ne seront plus privés de la présence et de l'amour de leur maman. Si ton livre, chère Alberte, pouvait empêcher la libération conditionnelle d'un individu dangereux, retarder la sortie d'un tueur potentiel, il accomplirait alors sa mission. En faisant avec toi une prière pour Hélène, je fais aussi cette prière pour un monde d'amitié et d'entraide, un monde de fraternité comme tu as voulu en présenter un dans ton roman. Je souhaite ce monde à toutes les Hélène qui se cherchent et qui cherchent la sécurité et l'amour. Félicitations et bon succès à ton livre! (Colette St. Denis, Ottawa, Ont.)

C'est une belle histoire de quatre femmes en quête d'amour. On ne peut rester indifférent lors de la mort d'Hélène, c'est regrettable mais c'est la réalité. Il y a trop de femmes qui subissent le même sort. Ton titre est bien choisi. J'ai beaucoup aimé Nicole, Bernard et la petite... Cette histoire démontre que même si au cours d'une vie, il y a des difficultés, il y a aussi de l'espoir... Je te félicite et je te souhaite beaucoup de succès avec tes romans. (Liliane, Bourget, Ont.)

Tout d'abord, merci, merci, merci!! J'ai peine à imaginer tout ce que l'écriture d'un roman peut représenter comme  effort, discipline et recherches. Merci pour ce cadeau que tu nous offres! Je dois t'avouer que la fin m'a attristée... Tout au long de ma lecture, j'espérais qu'Hélène puisse, elle aussi, trouver la paix et la sérénité. Mais encore une fois, c'est la tragédie qui frappe cette pauvre jeune femme. Comment ces événements peuvent-ils encore se passer en 2007? Le sort d'Hélène me fait un peu peur aussi. Aurons-nous toujours à craindre le pire pour nos filles et nos petites-filles si leurs relations se détériorent? Là où j'ai vu de l'espoir, c'est dans l'amitié de ces femmes et le pouvoir qu'elles se donnent dans le partage de cette amitié. Et que dire de la relation d'Hélène avec sa grand-mère. Parfois on se demande quel rôle nous jouons dans la vie de nos petits-enfants. Sommes-nous des grands-parents "gâteaux"? Sommes-nous des repères stables et fidèles? Sommes-nous importants? Tu as fait de Marie-Ange une bouée de sauvetage pour cette pauvre Hélène. Quel beau rôle pour une grand-mère! Même après sa mort, son héritage d'amour et de compréhension accompagne Hélène dans ses moments les plus sombres. Encore une fois merci pour ce roman avec ses passages réalistes, pas toujours faciles à envisager, avec aussi ses moments d'amitiés féminines inconditionnelles, avec ses relations mères-filles vécues pour le meilleur ou pour le pire qui laissent des traces indélébiles dans nos vies de femmes, de mères et de grands-mères. (Lise, Gatineau, Québec)

Je viens de terminer la lecture de ton roman "Une prière pour Hélène". Chapeau! J'ai eu de la difficulté à le déposer tellement je voulais savoir la fin. Quel beau roman avec la description d'endroits et de villes que je connais et ces femmes qui font tout pour se faire aimer. Des mères de famille qui trop souvent élèvent seules leurs enfants et qui se retrouvent dans des situations difficiles. Tu décris bien leur solitude mais aussi cette grande amitié qui les unit et qui leur permet de trouver un peu d'amour et de bonheur. On nous a trop appris à nous taire... Ce roman démontre bien qu'encore aujourd'hui les femmes ont besoin d'être informées et protégées. J'espère que tu vas nous offrir un autre roman bientôt. Félicitations! (Pierrette Lambert, Limoges, Ont.)

J'ai dévoré ton premier roman "Le jardin négligé" en un après-midi. Mon amie Thérèse, une enseignante à la retraite, l'a beaucoup apprécié aussi. Longue vie à ta carrière d'écrivaine. (Louise Garneau, Gatineau, Qué.)

Je trouve intéressant le fait que tu as présenté un groupe de femmes qui se lient d'amitié, s'entraident et se soutiennent mutuellement dans leurs malheurs dans "Une prière pour Hélène". Certaines femmes recherchent encore de nos jours l'homme idéal, celui qui saura combler leurs besoins d'affection, d'amour et de sécurité. Tu as su présenter des signes avant-coureurs qui feront réfléchir les femmes avant d'établir une relation amoureuse prématurée et risquée. Notre monde fantaisiste fait rêver les plus vulnérables, les plus sensibles, celles douées d'une grande générosité de coeur et d'esprit. J'espère que les lectrices trouveront la force intérieure pour aller chercher l'appui nécessaire afin de trouver la confiance, l'estime et l'équilibre émotif. Tu as des talents merveilleux! C'est un cadeau du ciel à faire partager. (Andréa Dubois, Ottawa, Ont.)

"Le jardin négligé" m'a fait revivre mes vacances à la Barbade, au seuil de la quarantaine, quand je me questionnais aussi sur ma vie avec un macho. J'ai donc immédiatement emboîté le pas avec Anne dans sa visite de l'île, balayée par les alizés, impregnée de parfums et sur laquelle plane l'ombre de pirates cruels comme Sam Lord... et André. Heureusement, les ombres s'estompent vite dans la lumière radieuse et vibrante des Caraîbes. Dans un cadre idyllique, Anne réfléchit sur sa vie, son passé, ses relations et elle forge de nouvelles amitiés. Elle reprend confiance en elle-même, s'affirme et envisage la vie avec espoir. Ce roman tire sa force de l'affrontement entre un passé terrifiant et un avenir plein de promesse, l'éternel combat entre l'ombre et la lumière, les ondes négatives et l'énergie positive. Après les misères et les déceptions, Anne réussit à sortir de la déprime pour vivre sa vie. Un bel exemple de courage! J'aurais aimé dire mille choses de plus sur ton merveilleux roman! J'ajoute ceci: Anne a réussi et c'est un exemple pour des milliers, voire des millions de femmes! J'aimerais que tu continues à oeuvrer, comme tu le fais si bien, pour la cause des femmes. Nous comptons sur toi et, depuis que j'ai eu le plaisir de te rencontrer, je sais que tu es à la hauteur de nos aspirations. Je crois que tu les dépasses même souvent... Alberte, j'ai hâte de lire ton deuxième roman et j'espère te revoir à un autre salon du livre. (Anne-Marie Bouchat, Chelmsford, Ont.)

J'ai lu "Le jardin négligé" avec beaucoup d'intérêt et d'émotions. Tu fais tellement bien ressortir la complexité du processus de l'abus et le courage qu'il faut pour s'en sortir. Tu enseignes discrètement à travers les chapitres et il me semble que n'importe quelle personne (particulièrement une femme) pourrait s'en servir pour discerner les étapes de prises de conscience et d'actions à poser. Tu m'as dit que ce livre est plus autobiographique que "Une prière pour Hélène". Dans ce cas, je rends hommage à ton courage et ta vitalité. (Geneviève Hone, L'Ange-Gardien, Qué.) 

Le roman "Une prière pour Hélène" coule bien, l'histoire est captivante et une fois qu'on a commencé, on ne peut plus s'arrêter! Ce roman nous fait voir notre monde d'une façon véritable et authentique. Au fil des pages, l'auteure décrit tout plein d'endroits bien connus dans l'Outaouais et l'histoire de femmes qui sont prêtes à tout pour se faire aimer. (Pauline Malette-Dupont, UCFO Vanier)

Commentaires au sujet des articles dans True North perspective

Bonjour grand-maman Alberte! J'ai lu ton article dans TNP (3 avril). Bravo! Tes conseils sont sages et très à point. Tes petits-enfants sont chanceux de t'avoir dans leur vie. (Nicole Roussin, Orléans, Ont.)

Ton article sur le jardinage dans TNP, quel beau message d'encouragement... J'ai le goût de préparer un petit coin de verdure près de mon patio. C'est vraiment un excellent moyen de se défouler en jardinant et d'espérer des jours meilleurs. (Lise Gerow, Vanier, Ont.)

Je viens de lire ton 3e article (1er mai) dans True North Perspective: très intéressant et même spirituel (cette union avec la nature) car tout a commencé dans un jardin. Ta simplicité et ta fraîcheur savent faire vibrer nos cordes sensibles. (Nicole Roussin, Orléans, Ont.)

Au sujet de ton article du 5 juin, "Other Pests..." Très bien écrit! Je suis essoufflé juste à penser à toutes les activités auxquelles tu participes. (Robert Beauchemin, Ottawa, Ont.)

Je viens de lire ton dernier article (5 juin) et comme les précédents, je les trouve toujours intéressants. (Liselle Morin, Gatineau, Qué.) 

Félicitations pour ce magnifique article, "Nova Scotia beckons"! Oui, c'est beau et il fait bon vivre dans l'Est près de la mer. Bravo! (Lucette Sullivan, Chesterville, Ont.)

Je lis tes articles de TNP avec grand plaisir! (Anne Gendron, Orléans, Ont.)

Ton article "Nova Scotia beckons" me donne des idées; nous ne sommes jamais allés par ce chemin. Très belle description! Il semble que tu aimes les bons restaurants. C'est un modèle qui me plaît! (Robert Beauchemin, Ottawa, Ont.) 

Un gros merci pour tes articles! J'aime beaucoup te lire, surtout l'article "Farewell and Godspeed" sur la fermeture de la vieille école Montfort. (Marcelle Chartrand, Orléans, Ont.)

Félicitations pour ton reportage sur l'école Montfort. Tout comme toi, je garde aussi de doux souvenirs de cette belle époque. (Juliette Vinette, Gloucester, Ont.)

Absolument superbe! Keep up the great writing! (Cécile Landriault, Orléans, Ont.) 

 C'est merveilleux ce que tu transmets de la générosité, la débrouillardise, le don de soi qui animaient tant d'enseignants et d'autres personnes dans l'article "Farewell and Godspeed". Tu écris bien. Félicitations! (Geneviève Hone, Ottawa, Ont.)

Chère Alberte, je peux dire que j'ai toujours envié les enseignants. Quand nous nous réunissons en famille, mes enfants et leurs enfants, leurs enseignants est souvent un sujet qui revient. Après 37 ans au service de Bell Canada, je ne me fais jamais arrêter sur la rue par des gens qui me reconnaissent et disent avoir apprécié mes services. Mais, j'envie les professeurs qui se font souvent remarquer de leurs anciens élèves devenus adultes. Quel privilège de pouvoir dire qu'ils ont grandement influencé ces adultes à devenir des leaders de la société. J'espère que les enseignants d'aujourd'hui reconnaissent leur influence et obligation envers la jeunesse. Les enseignants à la retraite, donnez-vous une tape dans le dos! Robert Beauchemin, Ottawa, Ont.)

Je viens de lire le texte "Remembering Grandpa" et j'en suis très émue. Ces souvenirs sont très précieux pour toi et les enfants. Nous espérons tous laisser de tels souvenirs à nos petits-enfants. (Liliane Gratton, Bourget, Ont.) 

J'ai lu ton article "My friends' war stories...". Tant de gens ont souffert de différentes façons pendant ces conflits. Malheureusement, il y en a encore tous les jours sur la terre. Si on pouvait leur mettre du plomb dans la tête... Souvent la pauvreté mène les gens à ces atrocités... des gens désespérés et meurtris par la vie. (Monique Laviolette, Ottawa, Ont.)

Totalement d'accord avec certains faits de ton article "Sue McGarvie celebrates Libido Day". 48 ans de mariage! Plus longtemps l'amour dure, mieux est le sexe. (Robert Beauchemin, Ottawa, Ont.)

Je viens de lire ton superbe article "Amazing Grace or tragic optimism?" nous invitant au courage dans l'adversité. Merci de nous présenter l'exemple de Jessica. En lisant l'article, je me disais que toi-même tu as démontré tellement de courage face aux épreuves que la vie t'a servies. Ta vie à toi peut servir d'inspiration et c'est d'ailleurs ce que tu as fait dans tes romans. (Geneviève Hone, Ottawa, Ont.)

Félicitations, Alberte! J'ai vraiment aimé ton article "You can't always trust Cupid". Je l'ai trouvé tellement personnel, tellement à point, tellement sincère. Je crois que je suis également romantique et c'est bien correct. Merci pour ce plaisir de te lire. (Ginette Proulx-Weaver, Greely, Ont.)

Wow! impressionnant cet article!!! Excellente écrivaine, psychologue en plus!! Félicitations!! Très bonne capacité de synthèse aussi, je dirais. (Carole Bézaire, Gatineau, Qué.)

Ton article "You can't always trust Cupid" est excellent! Je te souhaite de retrouver ce que tu as eu de beau, bon et satisfaisant. Tu es professeur à vie; tu aimes enseigner et partager (Robert Beauchemin, Ottawa, Ont.)

Ton écriture est superbe, Alberte, ainsi que les sujets traités. Tu parles de coincidence, j'aime beaucoup ton explication. Si tu permets, je vais en ajouter une autre. La coincidence: "c'est le costume que Dieu porte pour passer incognito". (auteur inconnu) J'ai toujours tellement hâte de te lire, c'est pour moi un important moment de réflexion, une sorte d'introspection. Un temps pour aller vérifier si ma vie est au diapason des aspirations des autres qui ont besoin de notre aide... ça peut être un bon mot, un encouragement. Merci de tout, chère Alberte! (Anita Bourdeau, Ottawa, Ont.)

Félicitations pour ton témoignage dans "When love turns to violence" sur le comportement de ton ex-mari bipolaire. Ton article est très intéressant. Je suis d'accord avec "tolérance zéro" envers tout être humain mais il faut être très vigilant et avoir de bonnes oreilles pour écouter les gens en détresse. (Lise Gerow, Ottawa, Ont.)

 "Unforgettable memories" Wow, Alberte, quel article bien ficelé!!! Merci de nous faire entrer dans ton univers avec Logan et tes autres petits-enfants! Quels beaux moments chaleureux! Ça prend un talent indéniable pour amalgamer aussi finement relations familiales, émerveillement devant la nature, souci pour l'environnement et notre legs aux générations futures. (Carole Bézaire, Gatineau, Qué.)